This post is the obituary I wrote for my mother, Nancy Patterson. A short version was published in the Chicago Tribune at Legacy.com at this link.
Nancy Ann Patterson (nee,
Post) passed away peacefully on the morning of May 23, 2016 in her adopted home
of Arizona.
Born in Toledo, Ohio, on
July 23, 1935, Nancy was the youngest daughter of Viola and Donald Post and
sister to Donna (Harris). Raised in Battle Creek, Michigan, Nancy left the
comforts of home and moved to Chicago in 1956 with her husband Shane O’Connell
and daughter Sheryl. Two years later, daughter Renee was born.
While working as a waitress
in the thriving artistic neighborhood of Old Town Chicago, she met lifelong
friend and legendary jazz musician Jimmy Smith. Attending his concerts at the
Plugged Nickel and other jazz clubs over the years with her daughters was among
her happiest memories. Nancy’s love of music was a strong thread throughout her
life. At Battle Creek Central High School, she played clarinet in the orchestra
and sang in Glee club. In Chicago, she learned to play the guitar in the 1960s
at the Old Town School of Folk Music and later took up dancing and performed in
a dancing troop in Sun City, Arizona, for many years. Daughter Renee (Blue) inherited
her mother’s guitar in 1975 and went on to become a professional musician. Nancy’s
legacy lives on through Blue’s gift of music and playing for hospital patients,
nursing home residents and people with special needs.
In addition to her love of
music, Nancy was known for her artistic creativity. She loved needlepoint and
stitchery and excelled as a seamstress. She took great joy in putting her own
interpretation on current fashions, and her daughters, wearing the one-of-a-kind
garments she made them, always looked
stylish and ahead of their time.
Her incredible interior design
skills equaled that of any professional decorator. Her many phases of style in
home décor were tastefully up to date. In the 1960s, the family’s apartment in
Uptown, Chicago, was painted in red, gold and olive green, and the furniture was
decidedly mod. A leopard skin chair, black chaise lounge and a new hi-fi console
were among some of the favorite items of that era. In the ‘70s, her suburban
home in Park Ridge resembled an historical museum after she had fallen in love
with antiques. A butler’s call box, a roll up desk with a green banker’s lamp, and
an old coffee grinder were a few of the things you’d find in her home. During her
last years in Arizona she decorated her home in a western cowboy theme. There
you would find rodeo paintings, cowboy boot lamps and horse saddles among her
collectibles.
Visitors were often in awe of
her ability to create a sense of timelessness and beauty. Sometimes they were
even afraid to sit on the furniture for fear of messing up the beauty! Her oldest
daughter, Sheryl, inherited Nancy’s visual artistic gift and has worked as a
graphic designer her entire adult life. Nancy’s legacy lives on through Sheryl’s gift of
beauty, fashion and style.
Nancy’s creative skills and
flair were balanced by her practical abilities. In the late 1960s, she became a
computer programmer, which altered the course of her life. For it was in this
job that she met her second husband Jeffrey Emrich and relocated the family from
city to suburbs in 1970. With their shared love of antiques and history, Jeff
and Nancy enjoyed volunteering with the Park Ridge Historical Society. In 1974
their son Scott was born. He went on to become a successful tech entrepreneur
and currently owns a business in social media. Jeff passed away in 1997.
Nancy was a gentle and kind
person who was known for her accepting attitude towards others. She enjoyed
being with people but also loved her solitude. She was a big supporter of
Goodwill throughout her life. She regarded shopping at Goodwill as a way to help
others, knowing that her money was going toward a good cause. Donations to
Goodwill can be made in her name in lieu of flowers.
The family wishes to express
their gratitude to Paul LaGorce who was a loving friend and caregiver to Nancy
for many years. Also, to the staff at Comfort Home Care in Peoria, AZ, who
cared for her in her final days.
