Saturday, September 16, 2017
Here Comes the Sun and I say, "It's alright!"
Yesterday was a special music session for me. I was playing at a nursing home in the skilled nursing area where there are people there for rehab. Many of them are there for just a few weeks or months. This means that I meet people in what could be one of their darkest times. They are away from home for an extended and sometimes unkown period of time and forced to live among strangers.
When I asked the group if there were any who were having a birthday soon to sing to them, a woman I've never seen there before spoke up. She was seated in a wheelchair and both of her legs were bandaged. In other places where the bandages did not cover, there were open wounds and she looked to be in a lot of discomfort. As soon as she began to talk, she started to cry. "It is my birthday next week and it's going to be the worst birthday I've ever had." She apologized as she continued to cry but I assured her I understood and it was good to cry, that is how we heal.
We started talking then and sharing about music and she said she always loved The Beatles. I got the idea then to play for her their song, "Here Comes the Sun." I first played it as an instrumental without the lyrics and I could see the woman listening and as she stopped crying. Then when I sang,
"Here comes the sun, little darling
here comes the sun and I say
Her eyes lit up and she smiled and started to sing along with me.
"Little darling, it's been a long, cold lonely winter
little darling, it seems like years since it's been here
Here comes the sun... "
I could see this song struck a comforting chord with her and this led to a series of other songs that helped to uplift her spirits. We sang, "Stand by Me"
"If the sky you look upon, should crumble and fall
and the mountains should tumble to the sea
I won't cry, I won't cry
no I won't shed a tear
just as long as you stand, stand by me. "
We sang, "My Girl."
"I've got sunshine, on a cloudy day... "
By the time I left, the woman who was crying in despair was laughing and joyful. Music can do that. It can ease our burdens and remind us that there is still beauty and hope and joy. The world is still a beautiful place. It was a gift to me to be with her in her time of need. We've all been there and I was glad that the songs gave us a chance to share some hopeful moments. Peace to you all and thanks for reading!